One more day of this painful watching of people at their worst is going to make me nuts. What in the Himmell is going on? Men want to not be men. Some want to be women some goats or infants. Women want to be men, children, unicorns whatever. The queer want parades to show themselves off as..well..queer. Anyone refusing to watch or bake them a cake gets sued. Losing their businesses, homes and property. Nobody should ever be offended, oh my!

All these groups are developing weird, dangerous, scary reputations. Having looked I can not find a good one, a good reputation anywhere. A reputation is the combined views, and opinions of another’s actions. It’s a noun. A thing by which we often base our judgements .

Black people suffer from the reputations of other black people’s actions. Because as is our nature we remember the worse things, the more potent, the shocking or salacious behavior. Hardly ever the good. Not first at least. People who apparently performed acts anathema to good works. Have provided the world with a fear creating reputation.

Sadly regular gentle everyday God-fearing, hard-working, black people can’t escape it. Just about every description, caption of the hard core angry violent black, criminals, includes the color of their skin, black. So now, it has become subliminal in everyone, blacks are to be feared. It is their reputation.

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We need to watch our language! The media needs to stop depicting all of us by the color of our skin! They continually describe everyone by some biased moniker that they want to get out there, for viewers, for more subscriptions, ad revenue, etc. In other words it’s for greed. But by putting so much importance on ones skin color, ethnicity, a gender, a profession or political stance these things take on an importance that is not deserved. It just focuses tighter on the issue the writer has decided you should know. Because well, it is important. No it is not.

Why not eliminate the adjectives of color or race from the media. The media are the main form of reputation makers, so let’s start there. Not enough trouble in their world? Now they are trying to make us bad because we were born white…This is so counter productive, It is pure evil. We do not have to go along with them or the radiculous ideas they try to plant in us.


Why not just say for instance in a news clip, a man or a woman, from anywhere, did this or that, to someone else?. Eliminate the use of color or race in descriptions.! They are not needed. We are not the police who may have to have a full complete description, but the rest of us do not. Not today or tomorrow. We can describe people by age, height weight, hair color complexions, nose sizes etc. Chinese, Asian, White, Black, Yellow, Purple, are not required in describing anyone or anything. Well almost anything, like nations, we need to name that characteristic, like China rules the Chinese. And COVID 19 that’s from China. Their reputation is not good now either, nor was it yesterday.

So I am advocating censorship? Well sort of.

Today the violence perpetuated by the media’s encouragement is radical, ugly, tragic and is further ruining reputations.

The looters, thieves, violent, fire causing, screaming chaos building people have ruined the reputation of decent protests and protesters. No good message was allowed to escape due to these anarchistic rioters . The Association with those of bad reputation has obscured the message. That this entire country already knew and agreed with you on ,regarding the tragic death of George Floyd. That was prior to the rioting of your protesting buddies ! Ruined reputation of grieving protestors. Obscured the reality of the event. Changed the focus.. We are known by the people we surround ourselves with.

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Published by Oh for crying out loud & it's Echoes!

About me it asks? Yikes...... Well I am a passionate and spirited mature woman of faith. Faith in God, My Lord and Saviour must always come first. Also I am a mom, of four. I was a wife 3 times, 2 times widowed. That was rough ! Rougher in every way more than I ever thought it would be.! I had no understanding of what the loss of a spouse entails. I was caretaker to each of them until they passed from their medical catastrophies. So after the last one passed I decided enough, I was done, could not experience that kind of loss again. Besides I began to think it was safer for the males in my life if we never get married. God has a purpose for this single aloneness He has me in today. So I will wait as He slowly reveals His plan for me to come. That is just fine with me. I just know those plans are going to be interesting at the very least. I am also a braggadocious Grandmom, Stepmom, Aunt, Sister, Cousin, and Friend of many. A woman who has much to say about a great deal. An Opinionated INTJ personality. Don't know about INTJ's? Thats your problem, google it. There are'nt many of us which I heard is a good thing. Ha it's all about perception. We are frustrating to be around because we are right. About almost anything and unrelenting. Just ask us. So by popular demand, (a few friends and family suggested that I write down some my experiences, notions, opinions. Certainly not so I wouldn't drive them all crazy with my ever competing thought and comments) 'Oh For crying out loud' was born. Born once in 2015 and then, Born again. More Recently. Now it is 'Oh For Crying Out Loud & it's Echoes'. I know it's a long name but I have trouble with being short. A work in progress. As the Good Lord has seen to bless my life with many diverse and rare maladies along with a humongous family, really large in size and in its fulnessl of unique and rare nutty complex diagnosis'. It seems fitting to share the mountainous climb many of us shared through our trips and travails of medical errors and not. We need advocates in our health system, loads of them. From every genre and field. People are dieing in vast numbers . The cover ups are humongous, unbelievably tragic. And common. Blame the Insurance companies? They certainly are a great part of the problem, but then so are their lawyers! Necessary, in many many ways yes! But there are good eggs in every basket, which means usually the opposite is also true. Just like we need them, we need pain. Well we do! How otherwise would we know fires are hot or learn the dangers to stay away from? However the medical profession in all it's glory is the most eggregious! All their services and administrators should carry ever more of the burden of responsibility along with all their ever greedy lobbyists and our corrupt nonsensical governing bodies! They take the cake!! Pharmaceutical companies, medical equipment companies cavorting along in orgy style with The FDA, hahaha ,yes we need them but not the harm they also cause. Well enough about all the icky difficult news.....for now. Blessings and hugs to you and I pray your helped by these stories and thoughts . Which more are to follow soon. If even you gain just a little better understanding of the goings on behind the scenes in our medical care for you and your loved ones protection, I will rejoice and a good Truth will be shared.. Until later......SS .

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